Don’t forget! We are organisms
Through all this achievement we’re chasing, we need to remember this. Businesses and cars and machines benefit from the very best at all times. But as humans, we’re a little different. Sometimes we just need a turkey sandwich.
The best part of the movie
The best part of a movie is the monologue. The main character finally decides to speak up, inspire their companions, and face up to the challenge. These scenes give us chills, and live long lives in our minds after the credits roll.
When Optimization is Not Optimal
The most optimized approach is not the most effective for long-term habit building. Former athletes and musicians struggle with this the most. We know the most optimized way to exercise and play, and we tell ourselves if we can’t do it that way, we might as well not do it at all. This is a big lie that holds us back.
Curation is more important than ever
I barely believed it when I read it, but Barnes and Noble grew by 4% last year. They’re in pursuit of opening 30 new stores this year. Even in the shadow of Amazon, which offers every book cheaper and faster, Barnes and Noble is expanding.
I hope this book sucks.
I just received a proof copy for my first book. Still a way to go from here but it’s exciting to hold something in my hand. As I do, I can’t help but think one thing…I hope this book sucks.
Opinions Matter (how to get more followers on Threads)
On Instagram, you could get by with pretty visuals, even if they were devoid of opinion. This isn’t the case on Threads.
Fuel The Fire (Film Festival)
I was having lunch with a friend who me if I wanted to start producing narrative pieces. I’ve produced a ton of commercials, but I haven’t produced anything narrative. I told her no. Two weeks after that, I produced my first narrative short film for Fuel the Fire Film Fest.
Persona vs Person (Olivia Rodrigo’s Wisdom)
“Something that I learned very early on is the importance of separating person versus persona. When people who don't know me are criticizing me, they're criticizing my persona, not my person.”
–Olivia Rodrigo
Read a great book five times: thoughts on Alex Hormozi’s approach
“You get more out of reading one book that’s great five times, than [you do] out of reading five mediocre books.”
–Alex Hormozi
Non-Profit Marketing
Behind every piece of good marketing is a good cause. Even the most profitable companies in the world wrap their products in a “cause” that helps their customers.
What are you working on?
Is it your business? Is it your side hustle? Is it your health? Is it your relationships? Or your mindfulness?
Turning Denial into Acceptance
I’ve had a pile of clean laundry sitting on my armchair for a week. I haven’t folded it. I hate folding laundry. This again? I have two weeks worth of underwear and a bunch of extra shirts that I hate wearing just so I don’t have to do laundry.
Irresponsible Thinking
Maybe the Twitter outrage factory that brings us so much dopamine is digging a deeper trench in our minds. Maybe the one-sided explanation of the world that comforts us is sinking us deeper in neural mud. Maybe the thoughts that we can’t get out of our minds are wrapping their tentacles around us more and more each day.
Getting into (and out of) a rut
Sometimes you fall into a rut. Everything is annoying and nothing seems like it’s going to work and it feels like you’re stuck inside a black and white photograph, slowly deteriorating in a box in God’s attic.
Fake humility is the reason you don’t post your work
We convince ourselves not to share our work out of fake humility. We tell ourselves that not posting really is a generous act because we aren’t bothering anyone. Our meekness is a moralistic leg up in our minds—at least I’m not clawing for attention like that guy!
The Idiot’s Advantage
My friend started a disc golf company that creates discs from 100% recycled material. Anyone who knows anything about plastics knows that this is a difficult thing to do. It’s a good thing my friend didn’t know anything about plastic.
The Tipping Point (or—how to make decisions)
There’s a tipping point in many decisions. If you’re wondering whether or not to do all the startup work for a new project you’re testing, just don’t. Get a few dry runs under your belt. It’s okay if it’s not a perfectly clean process.
5 Reasons Why You Lost Your Last Freelance Pitch (and how to win your next one)
You lost it. You worked overtime to put together a last-minute pitch for a client, and then…nothing. You’re not alone. I’ve lost and won hundreds of freelance pitches throughout my career. I’ve taken notes and I’m sharing my top 5 lessons with you.
The Irony of Accuracy
Sustained greatness is so difficult to achieve. Great directors, authors, musicians, and even sports teams struggle to string together even just two or three top-tier performances in a row. Many of us are caught in the never-ending dryer spin of chasing accuracy.
“Healthy Pressure of the Uber Days” - How Bobby Hobert is hunting big ambitions with daily habits
I dropped somebody off and I pulled over to the side of the road and f**king bawled my eyes out. I was just like Why isn't this happening faster? Why am I not doing this creative stuff faster? Why is it that I'm still behind the wheel driving people?