32 lessons from 32 years of life
#19 - The only way to feel rich is to live within your means.
#20 - Expensive meals are worth it because they teach you to enjoy the moment.
Information is power
The more information we have, the easier it is to make the right choices. Then why does it feel like the more information we consume online the harder good decisions become?
These women loved sports in 1956
Working in advertising, the question is always posed: how do we get more women involved? How do we represent more women?
Why I’m disappointed
As I’ve been researching for my second book, I’ve come across some slightly disappointing findings.
May this never be me
Having attended a number of weddings over the past few years, I’ve noticed something peculiar and sad.
Christmas & Birthday for Clean Water
My friend once told me I ruin all her pictures because my bright orange water bottle is always there. I'm a hydration freak. But for every sip I take, millions more take sips of contaminated water that spreads disease.
The easy way to think
The way I communicate is perfectly clear! If you don’t understand me, that’s on you!
Hostage negotiation with reality
“My profession is hostage negotiation with reality. Reality says “I’m gonna kill it!” and I say “no, you’re not. Listen, put down the gun, let’s talk.”
Too present to advance
Instead of trying to convince someone on your team to stay, what if you found someone who’s fully present with their work somewhere else?
Is self-care is just selfishness rebranded?
This is something I started telling myself when I realized I couldn’t be everything for everybody.
My personal vendetta
I have a personal vendetta against the phrase “I couldn’t be happier.” This also goes for “I couldn’t be more excited.”
There are levels to “taking a stand”
Please remember there are levels to taking a stand. There’s a difference between sharing a slide of a carousel post on your Instagram story, which disappears in 24 hours, and sharing it to your main feed, where people can comment.
Why AI is everywhere now (and why you’re a minnow)
“You’re a minnow. They want you to be a minnow, so the sharks can feel good. The sharks pay for everything.”
Stop asking AI (and people) leading questions
I see people often ask ChatGPT questions like “do you think this marketing idea is cool for Gen-Z?” Or they’ll ask “does this company have a big budget?”
Big change takes time. Start today.
As a freelancer, I often run into people who tell me they’re thinking about making a change in their career. When I check back in to see if these folks have quit their jobs, they haven’t.
Is your job meaningful or important?
Where does your job fall on this graph? Do you find yourself wanting to trend toward a different corner? Why is that?
I’m the one who has to make it good
This is something I’ve been thinking about as I prepare to write the first draft of my second book in a few weeks. I know it sounds obvious.